She.is.beautiful’s herstory has evolved, but love has always been the foundation.

                                                                  

She.is.beautiful has come a long way over the last 8 years. In particular, I think our image of “Girl Power” has shifted, and this concept has changed in the media as well. The conversation around race and privilege has made strides, with more room to grow. Topics like vulnerability, bravery, and gratitude have surfaced thanks to authors like Glennon Doyle, Brene Brown, and Elizabeth Gilbert. Many might argue that these powerful words have become trendy. Good – I can only hope for more people to talk about these topics so we can all understand each other more. In fact, the more we understand each other, the more we often learn that most of us are really just searching for more love, the feeling of being heard, and a better understanding of the world.

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The starting line of She.is.beautiful 2017

 

To our participants that have joined us over the years, we thank you for being part of the process. In the same way humans evolve, the She.is.beautiful brand itself has continued to change, learn, and grow. Think back to your adolescent or young twenty year-old self. Most of us made mistakes and learned from them (at least eventually). Looking back over the years, there are a few moments that we put our hands on our heads in the same fashion you do when you think of memories where you did things simply because you didn’t know any better. Awareness and experience, this is how we all learn.

As a 23 year-old starting She.is.beautiful, the concept was very clear to me: share with other women and girls the way running and sweating made me feel. To create an in person community in a world that seemed to becoming more and more virtual. Empowering females of all levels to be inspired to bring more fitness and self-love into their life, as I was (and still am!) so convinced of its power to change all aspects of your life.  To lift each participant’s whole self to higher grounds. The stronger and more confident women and girls feel in their bodies, the more likely they are to take greater risks and opportunities in school, sports, or their career. The more likely they feel good within themselves, the kinder they will be to others, the more good they will bring into the world around them. I experienced this first hand in my own life, and I was inspired to share and celebrate this feeling with those who already had this lifestyle, as well as those who were searching for it.

Think back to 2011, the year She.is.beautiful started: Adele and Lady Gaga were just becoming mainstream, it would be a year before Instagram would be founded, and it was the last year of the Oprah Winfrey Show. As a 23 year-old white female, our branding and marketing were based on things that spoke to me (like most twenty year-olds do, right?!). I also wanted the event to feel the same way that both running and Oprah’s show made me feel over the years: Inspired, joyful, hopeful.

In a time before inspirational sayings filled your Pinterest page, our course was filled with signs of coined motivational mantras and fun sayings. Amongst our first year signs was “Run like Ryan Gosling is at the finish line with a latte.” To this day, I would very much not mind if Ryan Gosling was actually at the finish line with a latte for me, BUT before the second year of the event we became more aware and realized: 1. Our motivation to do things shouldn’t be to impress those of the opposite sex, and 2. Not everyone is attracted to the opposite sex…c’mon sister. (Insert palm to 24-year-old self’s face here).

If you’ve been with us since year one, you have hung on tight through grammatical disasters. We are not perfect but each year we look to improve on all fronts. As you cringe at the site of a grammatical error, we’re hoping our love kept you coming back. Our arms are wide open each year, ready to love you!

We’ve changed our courses to accommodate the requests of our participants, local law enforcement and jurisdictions, and neighbors. We’ve worked hard to fight for courses that respect others but also have epic ocean views. There’s more logistics that go into this process than many people realize. We are grateful to the cities we work with who have met with us time and time again to create safe spaces.

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Two girlfriends in our starting area with their pre-race game faces.

Over the last eight years we have grown – as individuals at She.is.beautiful and as a brand. A few of us have become mothers and this itself has opened our eyes up to a whole other perspective. Also, in the world and in the media, Women Empowerment and Girl Power has evolved. I think (I hope) girls are becoming more aware of their power at a younger age. I think many parents are becoming more aware of their influence and how to speak to their offspring about gender.

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We welcome women and girls of all stages of life. We believe every phase needs support and should be celebrated. Our Bumbleride Baby Mama Division is for those pushing strollers.

Let’s talk about privilege and race. The topic of privilege has become more openly talked about. We understand that many people who make time to run, are privileged. We understand many events cater to a privileged audience. At She.is.beautiful, we do our best to open our registration at an affordable price – not because we don’t believe in the value of our brand but because we want to have an inclusive environment.

Our event has become more diverse over the years.  In 2017, 38% of our participants stated “Hispanic or Latina” as their ethnicity. 47% stated “Caucasian or White” and the other 15% varied. We are not perfect and we know this. We continue to help grow this area. We hope the population of our community continues to evolve to reflect the world around us. We will be opening 10 scholarship entry spots that we will be taking applications for (stay tuned to our Instagram to learn more about this program).

Let’s talk about pink. We understand what pink used to represent. “Pink it and shrink it” was a term often used in marketing to women. This phrase basically meant to take any item on the market, make it smaller and pink, and women will buy it. She.is.beautiful adopted the pink branding because to us pink is bold, strong, and, to be honest, we think it’s a fun color. We have people give us feedback that having so much pink is the opposite of the strong empowering message we embody. Often times these comments are before  they participate in our event and then once they participate they often see how very different She.is.beautiful is compared to their initial judgement. But we’ve taken this feedback, we’ve thought about doing a massive rebrand. But for us, we think pink is…well, badass. We’re keeping it. We’re refining it. In fact, if you’ve been a part of this event, together we are and have been redefining beauty for 8 years.

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All smiles heading to the finish line!

We are excited to launch the 8th Annual She.is.beautiful Santa Cruz 5k and 10k registration on Wednesday, October 25th 2017 at 7:00AM. As always, the first 1,000 registrants will get the Early Bird Registration Price. Our 2018 race date falls on Saturday, March 17th 2018, which happens to also be St. Patrick’s Day. This happened one other year in the past and we stuck to our traditional branding but added some lucky flare in the mix. It’s going to be awesome and we hope you’ll join us!

As we wrap this up, we want to say this: We thank you for being a part of this community that is larger than just a race. We thank you for continuing to show up for life in the way you do. We thank you for growing with us, for sharing with us, and for inspiring us. We’re all in this crazy beautiful, hard, messy, amazing life, together.

Sweat and Dreams,

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My Running Truth: Running Is Not Easy For Me 95% Of The Time

Hiya, I’m Lacey! Most would describe me as a creative, firecracker, adrenaline junkie and wanderluster, but I am also an introvert by nature. It is a delicate balance to maintain. I’m an 18+ year military spouse and mommy to a miracle baby, a 15-year-old daughter. We currently live in New Mexico but Uncle Sam is finally taking us back home to Texas in the next couple of months and we are thrilled. I blog, sometimes regularly, sometimes not, over at laceybuchorn.com.

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When did you start running and what inspired you to start?
 
Running was not an activity that I ever imagined myself doing. I mean, I even forged notes and ended up in the dean’s office to get out of PE as a child. In 2008, my world was rocked. I was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 28. I was obese, inactive and suddenly fighting not only for my health, but my life. I’m not exactly certain why I chose running, but I guess I figured it was time to “go big or go home”. Almost 10 years later, I am still running.

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What has been the biggest lesson running has taught you?

Running has taught me that I CAN do hard things and to have faith in myself. I’ve always had a stubborn personalty, but also a tendency to give up when things got hard. Running is not easy for me 95% of the time, but the sense of accomplishment I get when I conquer a hard run makes me feel invincible.

 

How do you stay motivated to keep running on days you don’t want to get out the door?

I have several methods, but the biggest is to focus on why I started! Cancer hasn’t won and will NOT! My personal running mantra is, “But did you die?”. I also like to keep a race on the calendar! I find it easier to say “oh, I’ll run tomorrow” and “tomorrow” turns into next week if I don’t have anything specific that I am training for. I currently have 2x 5K’s, 1x 10K and 3x half marathons on the schedule in the next 4 months. Instagram is also great for motivation (find me @laceybuchorn). So many amazing women out there, doing even more amazing things!
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What has been the biggest challenge for you when it comes to running?

For me, it is my energy level and sometimes debilitating fatigue. I have to be flexible with my training plans and not beat myself up for rearranging or skipping runs. Rest days are important for everyone, but especially someone battling a chronic disease.

 

Who has been your biggest inspiration to get you going?

My husband! He has been there for me every step of the way! He encourages me, supports me and pushes me. He put his own training on hold to run with me in those early days when I was painfully slow. He holds me when I have a bad run or a mid-trail anxiety attack. He has been at every one of my finish lines, either holding my hand or annoying the people standing around him, cheering loudly. I have my very first race without him present this fall and I know the finish line is going to be a mix of emotions without him there. 
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What are your favorite shoes to run in?

Altra’s! Not only do I love the fit and zero drop, but the customer service is phenomenal. I currently run in Intuition and Torin for road and Superior for trail. I am eyeballing the new Timps for my next trail pair.

 

What does healthy mean to you?

Being a cancer survivor, I can’t look at health solely as the absence of disease and medications or the perfect weight and blood pressure. It is so much more than that. I keep my body healthy by staying active, eating foods that nourish my body, and getting adequate rest. I keep my mind healthy by avoiding drama, worrying less, and occasionally indulging in ice cream. Yes, it is 100% necessary to my mental health :-). I keep my soul healthy, by spending time in God’s word and focusing on an attitude of gratitude. Running has not only helped me lose 120 pounds, but it has helped me “find myself”. Hours on the road and trail give you lots of time to be introspective. Health is about balance. Balance between following the “rules” and enjoying life.

 

How has running effected other aspects of your life?

Running has brought my self confidence back, which in turn has challenged me try things I never thought I would! This year it was a mud run on an army assault course and next year I am signed up for a Ragnar Trail Race! Who knows what else I will come up with, maybe even an ultra!
Running has also brought amazing friendships into my life! The running community is like no other, supportive and encouraging! There are many people in my life I wouldn’t have met without running and I am so thankful I did!

 

What advice do you have for new runners?

My most practical suggestion would be to buy proper gear, shoes especially! Go to a reputable running store and have a gait analysis done. Yes, shoes are expensive, but so are injuries and proper fit is essential to keeping injuries at bay!
Start slow! I personally used the C25K program to start running way back in 2008 and still use this program if I take an extended hiatus from running. Running is hard and your 8 week plan may take 10 weeks, but who cares. The moment you step on that track (road, trail, etc) exhibit a running movement, YOU ARE A RUNNER! Forward movement, no matter how small, is till movement.
Lastly, don’t get caught up in the comparison trap! It is easy to focus on other runner’s distances, splits and achievements and get dismayed about your own performance. Running is a personal journey at the very core. Everyone is in a different chapter in their story and the only person you need to compare yourself to is who you were yesterday.
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Improve How You Move Part 2: Power Generation (Real Talk: The “engine” moving us from point A to point B )

You are in school and the teacher has just assigned the dreaded group project.  You quickly realize that no one else on the team has any interest in doing well on the project.  You become the only one working, staying up late to finish said project and in the end, it doesn’t turn out as good as other groups who had the whole team contributing.  Now you are left with a bad grade and a headache from lack of sleep.  What if I told you this same process is at work in millions of runner’s bodies around the world:  some body parts doing “all the work”, commonly getting injured in the process, while other body parts rest in Mexico sipping an umbrella cocktail.

I define power generation as the engine that is moving you down the road or trail. In the body, it is the movements or muscle groups that are doing the majority of the work to make this happen.  Inefficient power generation is a common cause of why runners get injured every year (research shows up to 80% of runners experience at least one injury every year…yikes!), why running even at slow speeds feels “hard” and why some people never get faster.  

 

Dysfunctional power generation sources include:

“Waist twisting and bending”:

           

Excessive spinal movement through over rotation of the back, coupled usually with either flexing or extending the back.  Think:  that runner with their chest up, rotating through their waist, while their legs are simply shuffling along.  Some spinal movement is undoubtedly necessary for efficient running, but it should never be the primary driver of power.  

“Butt kicking”:

Bringing feet off the ground by drawing them up high behind you and then having to take the time to fling the foot out forward for the next foot strike

“Twinkle toe-ing”:

Propelling forward using excessive work of calf muscles with your butt on the aforementioned tropical vacation and not participating in the workload.

 

How it makes us get hurt:

  • “Waist twisting and bending”: over rotation of the spine, especially when coupled with flexion or extension stresses the discs between our vertebrate, as well as the nerves that come out between them.  This can lead to back and pelvic pain.  Additionally, research has shown that when back pain is present, “core” musculature starts to not work as efficiently, leading to the whole body having an unstable foundation.
  • “Butt kicking”:  leads to overuse of muscles that flex the knees (like hamstrings) and extend the knees (like quads).  This also sets you up to have your foot land further in front of your body which sets off injuries described in my previous blog…think plantar fasciitis, calf strains, patellar tendonitis and pelvic floor issues…nothing good here folks!
  • “Twinkle toe-ing”:  leads to overuse injuries including the foot, arch, achilles and calf.  

 

How it makes us slower:

  • “Waist twisting”: There is only so much forward momentum that can be created by twisting your spine or lifting your chest.  This also can lead to having core muscles be put into positions they can’t work as well in, so they are not there to add support as well.
  • “Butt kicking”: It is simply a waste of energy to bring your foot up high behind you, not only because it also requires you to use extra muscular effort to bring that foot back DOWN to the ground.  It also  usually sets you up to have your foot strike too far in front of your body.  When your foot lands in front of you, instead of underneath you, it is the equivalent of “hitting the brakes”.  
  • “Twinkle toe-ing”:  Calf muscles are much smaller than glutes.  Using your calves to be the primary driver of forward movement is like crossing the ocean with a row boat instead of a cruise ship

 

The key power source being missed:

  • Waist twisting, butt kicking and twinkle toe-ing:  hip flexors and hip extensors working in conjunction with a strong, stable trunk

 

How we can fix it:

  • Our goal for all of the conditions described above is to work on increasing the amount you are flexing one hip joint while extending the other with the spine kept relatively neutral.
  • Train your brain and body with the Standing March:IMG_2303
    • Stand with feet hips width apart.  
    • Bring your spine into neutral by thinking of a ring at the bottom of your rib cage and a ring at the top of your pelvis and line these rings up (many runners have a tendency to tilt their chests up to the sky which brings the spine into excessive extension).  
    • Grow tall not by lifting your chest, but by slightly tucking your chin and thinking of someone pulling your ponytail up and forward.  
    • March one knee up until your thigh is almost parallel to the ground, your ankle is directly under your knee and your toes are up (your hip, knee and ankle joints should all be at 90 degree angles).  
    • You should picture the leg you are balancing on pushing the crown of your head to the sky until you can feel your butt on that side starting to work.  
    • Hold for 1-2 seconds and then switch legs.  Come to the exact leg/foot position described each time.  
  • Running integration:  
    • Maintain the neutral spine position described above by the ponytail visualization and by keeping your gaze on the ground 10-20 feet in front of you
    • Lean slightly forward FROM YOUR ANKLES
    • Try to pick your knee and your toe up in front of you in the manner described above JUST A LITTLE as you run.  
    • Notice how flexing a little more through the hip will cause you to naturally use your butt to help you push off on the OPPOSITE side naturally.

 

Here’s to getting faster, stronger and being able to run forever!

 

Sara

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Sara Tanza PT, DPT, CFMT  is a Doctor of Physical Therapy and the Assistant Race Director for She.Is.Beautiful 5k and 10k.  

The Race is Almost Here: You’ve Got This!

She.is.beautiful Santa Barbara 5k & 10k is around the corner! With just a week until race day, it’s time to start preparing yourself to have the best experience possible. Let’s talk about how to use all the emotions that might be surfacing to empower you to run a race that will make you proud.

 

Revisit Your Goals

When you signed up for the race weeks ago, besides soaking up the epic race day energy, you may have made some personal race day goals. After training for this day, it’s time to revisit those goals you made for yourself and tap into your inner superhero. It’s a good time to write your race day goals down and how you’re going to make it happen on race day.

 

Visualize Success

Once you’re squared away with your goals and made any adjustments, start to imagine yourself having the best race ever. When we practice believing in ourselves, our body will usually follow. But the opposite is also true. If we fill our mind with negative race day thoughts, that’s probably how our race will unfold. So in the last few weeks, take some quiet moments to close your eyes and imagine the day from start to finish. Picture yourself waking up race day morning feeling strong and joyful. You’re focused but lighthearted. The coffee is perfect and your race day outfit is on point. You’re imagining yourself soaking up the race day energy and using it to make you feel powerful. Perhaps you picture yourself at each mile feeling tired but repeating to yourself, “This is hard, but I go this.” Whatever gives you the image of your ideal race, start visualizing it so that you can make it come alive in real time on race morning.

 

Practice Positivity and Resilience

Similar to visualizing success, we need to practice it as well. Just like in a race, life is full of potential setbacks. Enjoyment and success are dependent upon how we respond to these challenges. If you practice using resilience and gratitude in your daily life in the last few weeks, especially if obstacles arise, these will help you stretch your mental game for race day. That way if something unexpected happens on race day, you will have your mental strength fresh in your tool kit.

 

Now is the time to come up with a race mantra. This is something that’s short and simple that will inspire you before the race and keep you motivated and resilient when the going gets tough. Come up with a few words that feel true to you, and put them on mental repeat leading up to the race. Then, practice these words in your last few training runs so they become part of your routine. Then pull these words out of your arsenal when you need to power through that last mile and make it to the post-race festival with beaming pride.

 

Relax and Trust the Process

In the last week, you may be nervously anticipating race day. So much to be excited about and also so many unknowns. How will I feel? What if I’m hungry? Or sick? There are so many scenarios that can arise. But that’s life, too! The best we can do is visualize, plan, do the work, and then enjoy the journey and respond to challenges. You can take all these skills with you on race day to feel confident and proud. When the nerves arise, remind yourself it’s just excitement in disguise.

 

You are ready for this day. Believe it and get our there and have some fun!

 

You’ve got this,

Mary

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Things We Love: First Taste of Fall

Do you have one of those friends who alwayScreen Shot 2017-09-13 at 10.33.13 AMs recommends the greatest new thing? We do and her name is Leslie. We want to share some of her favorites with you! Each month we will share with you her favorite items of the moment.

Leslie Haverstock is a special education teacher by day and a lover of all things running, fitness and fashion… all the time.  She has a super rad husband and the world’s greatest dog.  Leslie’s blog, Laps Lunges Leather, explores all these loves with a bit of humor, some tears, and fantastic tips and tidbits.

It’s not a secret, and I’m sure I’m not the only one, but Fall is my very, very favorite season.  Maybe it’s because my birthday month is in the Fall, maybe it’s the change of the weather that makes boots and sweaters come out of the closet, maybe it’s ALL THE PUMPKIN SPICE, maybe it’s the slower pace after the hustle and bustle of summer fun, and maybe it’s simply because I was born in the Midwest and Fall is just incredibly beautiful there.  Now that I’m living in California the seasons don’t change as much, but the calendar says it’s Fall so it’s time for all of the Fall Favorites. 

As the season change, it’s time to share some Fall Favorites of mine.  Honestly, this list could go on and on and on, but since the SIB team said I could be a regular on their blog, I was able to narrow my favorites down to two things… actually four because if you follow my blog at www.lapslungesleather.blog you would find that there are some big loves in my life which includes all things lifestyle and all things running (and some cross training since all runners need some fine tuning to keep us doing what we love).

In the category of LIFESTYLE you know that I can’t escape adding something pumpkin into the mix.  I always find myself in a rush and know the importance of a good breakfast or replenishing my body after a run.  With that being said, let me introduce you to the Pumpkin Pie Smoothie.  Yep… it tastes like the real deal and it is simple and quick. Picture1

  • 1 frozen banana
  • ½ cup of pumpkin puree (not pumpkin pie filling)
  • 1 cup of almond milk (or any milk of your choosing)
  • 1 scoop vanilla protein powder**
  • ½ teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
  • 1 T almond butter (you can leave this out, but it adds some good fat)**

Add all of the ingredients into a blender and drink up!  **If you don’t have vanilla protein powder, use ½ t vanilla extract.  **If your almond butter is unsweetened and you would like the shake a bit sweeter, add a splash of maple syrup, coconut sugar or Stevia (or whatever little packet you like).

 

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The other sign that Fall has arrived would be Opi’s Black Cherry Chutney nail polish.  For real, this has been a staple in my life, and the life of many friends F-O-R-E-V-E-R!  I’ve had manicures from so many different salons and it’s a pretty sure bet that they have the color in stock.  It’s kind of hard to describe, but it’s a bit purple, a bit of shimmer, a bit of black red… I know that’s hard to imagine so check out the pictures.  Try it for your next manicure (comes in gel and regular polish)!

 

Now that we have you eating well and looking fine, it’s time to chat about my favorite RUN goodies this month.  I know that I just shared how much I love Fall, but there is one little thing that I’m not a fan.  What could I not love about Fall? The DARK!  With the days getting shorter, morning runs have brought out the headlamps, but Oiselle just upped their game with new reflective gear.  I seriously can’t get enough.  There are two items that are must haves in my closet.  Check out these beauties…

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These beauties come in a gorgeous blue and black. Not only is the new reflective print a winner, I like that there is a bit of compression and a bit of a higher waist.  The higher waist with the pocket plus compression makes stored items feel secure. 

Roga Shorts

If knickers aren’t your thing or your climate is warmer, check out the Roga Shorts.  They come in 3 different lengths with the Mac being the shortest and the Long, obviously being the long ones.  The ones shown are right in the middle.  The one thing I will warn about the Rogas is that the pockets aren’t in the greatest of places.  If you don’t carry much on a run, then these are the perfect shorts.  They are a top seller for a reason!

DISCOUNT ALERT… Using the code FIRSTFLIGHT will save you 10% on your Oiselle order.  You have to sign up for an account (don’t worry… they actually send emails you will want to read) and to use the discount you will need to be signed into the account.  Sorry… discount only applies to new accounts. 

And now… my final favorite thing for this month would be sunscreen.  Picture7Just because there is less sun in a day doesn’t mean our skin can go without coverage.  Running with sunscreen can be a real bummer when it runs into your eyes or makes you look like a ghost.  The one that has been my summer staple and will roll right into Fall would be Coola’s Classic Face SPF 30 Cucumber.  This stuff goes on light, doesn’t smell like a chemical sh*t storm (Did you see cucumber in the name?  Yeah… it’s smells so fresh), leaves your skin feeling soft and a bit dewy and… it’s 70% organic.  At $32 a bottle it’s okay to be a bit shaken, but I promise… a little goes a long, long way.

Honestly, I could pull out a hundred other favorite Fall Favorites, but we would be here all day.  So we’ll leave it here with Pumpkin Pie Smoothies, OPI nail polish, Oiselle’s reflective clothing, and Coola’s sunscreen.  Okay, okay… I’ll add one more… ALL THE PUMPKIN SPICE!  What are your Fall Favorites?

 

Want more from Leslie? (Who wouldn’t?!)

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My Running Truth: Simply Try

Hi! I’m Erin, a mother to two girls (6 and 2) and have been married for just shy of 10 years. My family and I are San Jose transplants; we moved here at the end of ‘13 after living in Chicago for 11 years (and before that, I lived in the Akron, OH area until I was 18). Spending time with my family, running, reading, writing (I have a little blog, runningruminations.com, and freelance/ghostwrite for a bunch of running-related websites) — I’m pretty easy to please.

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When did you start running, and what inspired you?

I have been running for as long as I can remember; I can recall running around my elementary school playground, around 1st grade, chasing boys while wearing frilly and lacey dresses (thanks, mom!). I ran middle school and high school track, just like my older brother and sister, and happily ran nothing longer than 400 meters because anything beyond that was “too far.”

I began marathon training for the first time in ‘07 with Team in Training (TNT), the fundraising and training arm of the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society (LLS). I wanted to honor my mom, who had survived breast cancer in ‘03 and then a stroke in ‘06, and my dear friend Traci’s mom, who had been diagnosed with non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma, and TNT had a huge presence in the Chicago running community. I managed to convince Traci to also run the Chicago Marathon that year (and many years thereafter) with TNT, as well. Aside from taking a Track and Field PE elective my senior year of undergrad, I hadn’t run since I was a high school senior. I had no idea what I was getting myself into.

Initially, my draw to the marathon was a simple fundraising/bucket list thing — I figured I would never do something like this again, so why not make it memorable by doing some social good with it by fundraising? — but through the sport, I met tons of other runners, many who have become some of my closest friends. Suffice it to say that my initial inspiration came from the courage and bravery of people like my mother and Traci’s mother, as well as the many patient honorees we met through TNT; those people were the real heroes, the real badasses doing the real scary stuff. If I could do something positive and productive with my running — raising funds to help make their quality of life better, by helping to fund research to create better and more effective medications and treatment therapies, providing funds that would allow for different comfort measures or increased patient support, and the like —  then it was a no-brainer. Training for and running a marathon would be difficult, surely, but it’d pale in comparison to the stuff my mom, Traci’s mom, or the many patient honorees endured/were enduring.

 

How has running affected your personal self-esteem, body image, goal setting, as well as other aspects of your life?

By its very nature, running is difficult, whether you’re sprinting 100 meters as fast as you possibly can or are struggling to keep making forward progress for hours on end in an ultramarathon. Despite (or because of) running’s challenging nature, I find it to be supremely rewarding because in it — through it — you can see progress. Sometimes progress will manifest as times on the clock getting faster, the distances you’re capable of running getting longer, your body or your body image changing in a way that is favorable to you, or maybe for once finally feeling strong when you’re facing something insurmountable (run-related or not). Running is an excellent teacher because it challenges me to get beyond my comfort zone —  and sometimes, quite frankly, it humbles my ass and tells me that I have to try again another day! — and honestly, it’s great. I find that running gives me many opportunities to reflect and to process, and it’s in those moments — and on the runs that I share with my friends or with my kids — that I find that this little hobby of mine has empowered me in ways that I wouldn’t have anticipated when I began it in earnest a decade ago. Running has taught me that I’m physically and mentally stronger than I realize and that nothing is impossible. Some tasks or goals will be more difficult and more challenging than others, of course, but if I’m willing to put in the work, the sky’s the limit. Therein lies the beauty.

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What piece of advice do you have for new runners?

Give yourself both the permission to try and the permission to fail. So often we tell ourselves that we’re only capable of X or that Y is outside our wheelhouse, and we shut ourselves out from the experience.We don’t even let ourselves try! We implore our kids to be brave and try new things, but as adults, we face uncertainty and failure with far more trepidation. I think we let our fears and anxieties get the better of us, and as a result, we sell ourselves short and under-perform. So many of us undermine ourselves and in the process, do ourselves a huge disservice. Believing in yourself — and trusting yourself and your training — can go a long way. I have a temporary tattoo from SIB ‘17 that says something like “she fiercely believed in herself, and that made all the difference.” There’s a lot of truth in that.

 

Why do you keep going? What has kept you motivated to continue to reach new goals and get out the door?

I keep going simply because I have more to give; it sounds trite, but I feel it, and I know it. So many people keep me going — my supportive husband, my kids who are watching my every move, my family and friends — and I’m extremely grateful that so many people believe in me and so enthusiastically support me. I believe my best years of running are ahead of me, and I’m committed to my own progress: getting faster, going farther, digging deeper, whatever, while continuing to remain healthy. It’s really important to me that I model positive behaviors for my girls and that they see how gratifying the process can be when you work hard day in and day out to chip away at a goal. I want my girls to grow up knowing that running — and more generally speaking, regular physical movement — is a normal part of a healthy lifestyle. Plus, practically speaking, running is a social thing for me, too. Being a stay-at-home mom, my social circle is pretty small and things can be somewhat isolating, and it’s through running that I’ve made some of my closest friends, especially after my family and I moved to California. I aspire to run in a way now that will allow me to be the 90+ year-old lady you see at a race many years from now, rockin’ a sweatsuit and headband and just throwing down. Ultimately, I guess you can say that I treat my running like a long-term relationship, and my motivation to keep at it and to improve trickles down from that.

 

What are your favorite running shoes and why?

I rotate my shoes pretty regularly (and have an embarrassing number in my current mix), but my fav for the past couple years has been Hoka One One’s Clifton. They feel great on my feet, are extremely lightweight (their moonshoe look belies their weight), and I appreciate how responsive they are. I’ve used them for many training runs on roads and trails, as well as for many road races, and I couldn’t be happier with them.

 

Do you have any running buddies that have inspired you along the way?

I’m lucky to have many running buddies who have helped me, and who continue to help me, become a better runner and a better human being. We runners are so lucky because while running can be a solitary sport, it can also be extremely social; we can have it both ways if we want. I am so appreciative to have so many people in my pocket who not only understand all this weird running stuff that I do but who also encourage me and embolden me to think and dream bigger.

 

What’s on your race calendar this year?

After racing some short stuff this spring and the San Francisco Marathon in late July, I just paced the 3:33 marathon group at the Santa Rosa Marathon — my 30th marathon! — in late August. This fall, I’ll train for December’s California International Marathon (CIM), with some cross-country action with my team, Wolfpack Running Club, in the mix.          

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Do you have a big, scary running goal you want to accomplish in the next five years?

I purposely haven’t put a deadline on my running goals, but arguably my biggest and most intimidating is to break 3 hours in the marathon. I’m working on whittling it down from my 3:19 PR, and while I know the progress isn’t going to dramatically happen overnight, I’m excited to continue to improve — to get stronger, to get faster, and to stay healthy — over the long-term. As my kids get older, I may foray back to ultras — I ran a 50k unknowingly pregnant and consequently put a 50-miler on the backburner — but we’ll see. I’m open to wherever my running takes me. My joy is in the journey.

 

Fill in the blank: my running truth is _________.

My running truth is to simply try. Give yourself the permission and the opportunity to try, to give a damn, and to fail. Don’t sell yourself short. Running can have a transformative effect on your life; dare yourself to let it.

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My Running Truth: Running Saved My Life

I am Karen. A wife of 34 years and counting, a mother of two grown children, a full
time preschool director and a runner. Never in my life did I think I would say that, I am
a runner!?!

When did you start running and what inspired you?

I found my passion for working with young children over 35 years ago, seeing the
delight in young children as they discover something new never gets old. Three years
ago I found that same passion of running. Discovering new things about myself with
each run. Finding my inner child and embracing the woman I am. I started running in
January of 2015, I still remember that first run like it was yesterday. I had signed up to
run the She is Beautiful for the first time, I had walked it in the past but wanted to
challenge myself to do something new after changing my life in 2014. So I signed up
with a good friend to do the She is Beautiful training with Fleet Feet. Each time I had
walked the race before I had seen more than one sign along the course that inspired me
to want to change.

How has running effected your personal self-esteem, body image, goal setting, as well as other aspects of your life?

For all of my life I had fought my weight. For years I had worked with the children of
women who were runners they would talk about the fun races they had run over the
weekend, I remember one such conversation about them running the San Francisco
Nike 1/2 marathon, listening to them talk and seeing their cool finisher necklace made
me wish I could be like them. But at 300 plus pounds and very out of shape there was no
possible way or so I thought. Some big medical issues started in my life, so it was time to
make some major changes and get healthy. I made the life changing decision to have a
weight loss surgery known as the vertical gastric sleeve, join the gym and work on me. I
spent six months learning about nutrition and working out in the gym before I had my
surgery on April 1, 2014. Using surgery as a tool, changing the way I looked at food and
focusing on exercise helped me to drop over a hundred and thirty pounds. As I became
lighter in my body, and let’s face it aware of what my body is capable of doing, I decided
to try running one day while I was out walking. I couldn’t go far but I could do it! With
each run I started believing in myself and feeling more comfortable in my own body.

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What piece of advice do you have for new runners?

Just take the first step! I was so scared and unsure but if I could do it you can. I went
to the first workout nervous and unsure. I remember running side by side with Amie,
one of the coaches, feeling so out of breath and like I was going to pass out after just a
short distance. But I did it, I ran! Still feeling so unsure of what my body was able to do,I
asked for help from the head coach Katie. We came up with a plan for me. Each week I
began to feel more sure of my abilities to run and aware of what my body was capable of
doing; finding an inner strength that I did not know I had. I ran my first race in March
2015, as I was running I could hear the coaches voices in my head. Reminding me that
this was my race and to believe in my training and myself. Their encouragement and
belief in me helped to carry me across the finish line.

Why do you keep going? What has kept you motivated to continue to reach new goals and get out the door?

Oh the feeling of accomplishment and pure joy of running my first race, I will never
forget it! That is what has kept me coming back to running. Even when life became over
whelming this last year I kept putting one foot in front of the other. Using running in the
forest of Nisene Marks became my salvation. Some days if I am honest I couldn’t get out
the door this past year but I knew I had the tools I needed to get back into my running
routine. So I have been putting one foot in front of the other for the two months and
slowly I have regained my love of running, I am not as fast as I was a year and a half ago
but you know what that’s ok, cause now I am showing up for my life again. I have really
enjoyed following the SIB training plan. Thanks Train with Mary.

What are your favorite running shoes and why?

 

I have tried many different kinds of running shoe in the past three years but have
fallen in love with Hoka One One Clifton 3 . I also enjoy running trails in my Hoka One
One Speedgoats. I look forward to trying the new Clifton 4. It makes me laugh because
before I started running I never know running shoes have names and that it was
important!

Do you have any running buddies that have inspired you along the way?

I feel so lucky that I have such a supportive family, my husband Tom said he would
never run and now he is running right along with me and my children Kayla and Glenn
are my biggest cheerleaders. Kayla has recently become one of the members of my
amazing ladies I run with. Jackie, Charissa, Tina, Kate, Donna and Rose Ann
encourage ,support and inspire me. Knowing that they have my back and are willing to
help me overcome my self doubt, telling me to stop listening to my inner voice that tells
me “ I can’t”, among other not so friendly things that may be swirling around in my
head and they are always willing to jump on board with each new goals I set for myself,
half marathons, trail running and so much more… I love being there to help them reach
the goals they set for themselves. With out them and others along this journey I am not
so sure I would be so excited to go out and run. Having amazing coaches, Katie,
Charissa, Amie and Joy, who helped me to trust in my ability and encouraging me to
reach for new goals. The biggest thing for me is with all the coaches help, I began to
believe in myself, my ability to run, to love the body I have and to believe I am a runner.
Without Melissa and Sara and the wonderful She is Beautiful race I may never have
changed my life so completely.

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What’s on your race calendar this year?

Next up for me is running the She is Beautiful race in Santa Barbara with my
daughter. After that the Rock n Roll 10k in San Jose. I hope to find another half
marathon to run in the spring.

Do you have a big, scary running goal you want to accomplish in the next 5 years?

Wow, this is hard writing my big scary goal for the next five years but here goes it is to
running at least two destination half marathons hopefully one in Hawaii and the
location to be determined. Becoming a member of Arete running group and scaling
back on work so I have time to reach these goals.

Fill in the blank, “My running truth is _____.”

My running truth is… Running has saved my life! I have become a strong healthy
woman who now believes, embraces and loves herself. Showing up for my life.

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Finding Her Strength: Spin Yourself Free

In my first installment of Finding Her Strength, I talked about the importance of diversifying your fitness game for three main reasons: to stay injury free, to prevent burnout, and to have fun! Over the next few installments, we’ll explore my top 4 things to add to your fitness routine:

  1. Spinning
  2. Strength Training
  3. Yoga
  4. Mental Muscle
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Spin yourself free! And experience the post ride endorphin high.

 

As a running and fitness coach, I recommend adding in some type of cross training activity at least 1-2 times a week.  Just like with running, too much too soon will set you up for disaster.  I am not suggesting that you add all of these workouts in all at once.  One step at a time.  Let’s start with Spinning, that is, riding on an indoor stationary bike through a guided, coached workout.    

What are the benefits of Spinning? (Why should I sit on a bike for an hour?)

Spinning is a fantastic complement to running because it fosters leg strength and cardiovascular conditioning and stamina … but with little to no impact on your precious joints.  A spin workout will help to develop your quadriceps, glutes and hamstrings, but will give your knees and ankles a rest from the pounding of the pavement.  A spin workout will also teach you how to get up close and personal with your effort levels (perceived rates of exertion) and your heart rate zones (if you wear a heart rate monitor) – all valuable lessons that can be applied to your running.  Spinning is a self-regulated workout. You have control of your pedal speed and your resistance dial, so you control how hard you work.  And of course, you get to rock out to awesome music along the way.  It’s also not weather dependent since it’s indoors.  Raining? Cold? Dark? No problem! Oh, and if you’ve shied away from fitness classes because you’re uncoordinated … no worries there either! I promise that even the most uncoordinated person can still spin.  Top it off with an epic post workout endorphin high (just as there is a runner’s high, there is a Spinning high too!) and plentiful caloric burn … boom! 

What will I need? (Do I have to wear spandex?)

Only a bottle of water and a towel are must haves.  You can choose your own attire, just be sure to select shorts that stay in place and don’t ride up.  Other recommended items as you start to become a spin superstar are a heart rate monitor (to gauge your effort), cycling shoes that clip into the pedals of the bike (to promote proper pedal technique), and padded cycling shorts (to protect your sensitive parts). 

What are your favorite spin workouts? (Won’t I get bored?)

My favorite spin workouts are ones that provide a variety of terrain – remember that a spin workout should replicate the experience of outdoor riding – so a blend of flat road speed work, uphill climbing efforts, with some power surges mixed in are my favorites.  I really enjoy Tabata or HIIT (High Intensity Interval Training), which are short intervals of hard/very hard effort followed by easy recovery, to build my fitness. I like to think of these intervals like my speed workouts on a track.  I also enjoy long, climbing intervals to build my endurance and I like to think of these like running hill repeats or like a big hill embedded in my long run.  A spin workout should present a journey, just like your run, so no, you won’t be bored!

What about the music? (I don’t listen to the Top 40…)

Part of the driving force in a spin workout is the beat – so if you are a music fan, you are going to be stoked!  The workout is designed for you to ride to the beat of the music to simulate the proper riding cadence of a sprint, a hill, etc.  So that presents a variety of music choices – fast beats for speed, slow/calm beats for climbing.  Techno, Rap, Rock and Roll, and instrumental pieces all have a place in the ride.  You are always in for a musical treat!

What should I look for in a good Spinning class? (I’ve seen videos of people dancing on their bikes..)

First and foremost, make sure you arrive early to class and have your instructor help you with bike setup.  Coming into class and randomly jumping on a bike and cranking into the workout is like going into someone else’s closet and randomly grabbing a pair of running shoes and heading out the door.  They’re probably not going to fit you, and you are probably going to be pretty uncomfortable pretty quick.  The instructor will show you how to custom fit your bike for your body.  This will ensure a comfortable and safe ride. Second, be sure that the class promotes safe and effective movements on the bike that simulate functional outdoor riding.  You don’t do pushups on a bicycle while riding outside. You don’t pump dumbbells on a bicycle while riding outside.  Then you really shouldn’t be doing those types of movements in a spin class.  Third, find an instructor that you like and have fun!

 

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A spin workout should simulate an outdoor riding experience … so you can take what you learn out on the roads and trails with you.

 

Alright, so we’ve got a self-regulated, low-impact workout that promotes strong legs and lungs all to the beat of awesome music … what are you waiting for?  “But won’t it hurt my butt?!” This is the question I hear the most from first time Spinners.  You may be slightly uncomfortable spending an hour on the bike for the first time – know that you can slowly build up to an hour class – you don’t have to do it all at once.  Start with 30 minutes and over a few weeks build up to the full hour.  Second, if you are particularly sensitive to the saddle, invest in a pair of padded cycling shorts to make yourself more comfortable.  Third, like with anything, practice makes perfect.  After 3 classes, I guarantee you won’t notice the saddle and you will start to learn how to support your body more with your legs and less with your bum! 

 

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Don’t forget to have fun!

 

Here’s your call to action – try mixing things up once a week for the next 30 days!  Pick a non-running activity and commit to it at least once a week for a month.  I suggest you give Spinning yourself free a try.  But stay tuned … in my next installment of Finding Her Strength, we’ll dive into the world of weight lifting and strength training.  Until next time, find your strong. Strong is beautiful. 

 

Sweat, Smiles, and Miles,

Katie Gott

Group Fitness Instructor and Running Coach, Community Coordinator for She.is.beautiful

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Why are we chasing health like our high school crush?

I’m going to kick this off with that fact that I’m not an expert. I have an undergrad degree in Psychology and minor in Exercise Science with very little right to lecture on this subject. But what I do know is my experience and how well I’ve come to know myself. I believe in sharing our stories because although each of our lives are different, I believe we can all learn something from each other and feel connection through our shared challenges.

If you’re like me, you had that high school crush and after crushing for years you actually got to date them. Then you realized they weren’t actually this god-like human you built them up to be and wondered why you wasted so much of your time on them. Like crushes, many of us treat health like this giant mystery… and mystery gets so much power. Many people’s views of their “healthiest self” is similar in this way. They spend years chasing it, wanting it, only to be left wondering,

“Am I doing this right?”    “Is this my healthiest self?”    “Am I f*$king there yet?”

“Is this what I worked so hard for?”

For many people our “healthiest self” seems to be the ultimate destination to happiness. It’s full of glowing skin, toned muscles, and the best damn green smoothie you’ve ever tasted. But here’s the thing: our dreamy vision of health is not somewhere we can buy a one-way ticket to ( I know, bummer!).

If health is our goal, health is a choice we have to make everyday (or most days!). Let’s be honest, the whole choosing thing- that’s where it can get complicated!

Growing up, my mom would always tell me to “just notice how your body feels” after eating treats or eating too late at night. She made it seem like listening to our bodies was such an easy task. I practiced this over the years and at first, I had a big disconnect between myself and my body. (“Hello body! I can’t hear you? Speak up?”) But over time, I started to hear my inner self and understand how important our relationship would be. To this day, I find myself taking mom’s advice, listening to my body, especially when trying to decide if I’m tired or if I’m hungry (blurred lines!).

As a runner and director of a women’s running race company, I believe in living a healthy lifestyle. Two things I have observed through conversations with women about health over the years: 1. Many of us treat our health like a mystery and 2. We put labels on ourselves that we believe are tied to us forever: “fat” , “depressed”,  “unhappy”, “unmotivated”, “not a runner”,  and so on.

HERE’S THE THING:  All of our bodies, our life, and our history, it’s all different. What I think is a healthy lifestyle, may not feel good to you or vice versa. Yes, all of us should eat more fruits and vegetables and move our bodies often, but let’s not forget, all our bodies are unique. There is not one specific formula for everyone. But you know what the cool thing is? You get to be the expert of your own body. You can look at this idea as a challenge or as a totally awesome journey.

This journey is full of trial, error, and a whole lot of honesty. I know, a secret pill to health and happiness seems like it would be the easiest choice. But hold up–that’s just not how life works. It’s the process, your experiences , and what you learn along the way that makes these journeys so incredible.

WHERE TO START:  We are not trees rooted in the ground, we can make changes and break free of our own labels. Breaking down the negative labels we put on ourselves is the first place to start. I know it’s easier said than done, but let that sh*t go. You are so much better, stronger, and more beautiful than all the negative labels you have put on yourself. Start living in the present today (see activity at the bottom of this blog!).

Our visions of health may be different based on the time of our life, current challenges we are facing, or our background. Let us be kind and patient with ourselves. Let us work hard and create a life that feels good.

Here’s my latest personal health story:

Today, my definition of health is drinking lots of water, feeding my body food and moving my body all of which make my body feel good. The truth is that most of the time it’s yummy whole foods that make me feel best, but there are some days where mint chip ice cream is exactly what I need. No guilt involved.

I had a short 3 month stint in my mid 20’s where I had just quit my corporate job and started working for myself. I had a lot of flexibility in my life, no kids, and a dual income at home. I had time and I had money. To this day, I often reference this to friends as, “the best days of my life.” I would wake up early and work from home before going on a run or attending a yoga class. Then I would pick up a green juice, coffee, and oatmeal before heading to the office to work some more. A couple of hours later I would take another break to hike or play in the ocean before heading home to do a couple more hours of work before making a delicious dinner. I was feeding my body the nutritious foods and was moving and caring for my body more than ever simply because I could. My life was a billboard for health and balance. Then two epic things happened that changed everything: I got pregnant and business got real busy.

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Adjusting to change was shocking for all of us!

Since that moment, I’ve had two children and business continues to thrive. My life went from selfish to selfless faster than I could say “kale salad.” In recovering from my daughter’s birth at the very end of last year, I was immediately busy with planning our biggest race of 2017. I started jogging again 7 weeks postpartum, but between work, my family, breast milk spraying everywhere, and just trying to “survive” it all, I mostly ate whatever was in front of me and ran when I could make time. To keep my sanity and happiness levels afloat, I made an agreement with myself to just focus on work and family until spring when work would level out.  I was hopeful I could find more balance and personal time. In moments of feeling overwhelmed by it all, I missed those “best days of my life” and honestly had times where I questioned if I was meant to have kids or if I should quit my work.

 

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They just woke up and have no idea I already got my workout in.

Four months after the baby was born I got back into a routine with my running that I had missed so much. Recovering from an emergency c-section, I struggled with running in the beginning, but each day I got stronger. Nutrition was not as much of a focus at the time, but I was getting in vegetables in between coffee and croissants.

Now, eight months postpartum, I have perspective and more energy. I’m willing to get up at 5:00am to run by 6:00am if this is my only chance to workout (BTW, 5:00am seems more crazy in writing than on my phone’s alarm clock). Nutrition has become more of a focus mostly because I feel so much better when I don’t eat as many bagels (I know, it’s a sad truth). My window for fitness is smaller than ever before. The time I make to run is never convenient but I always feel better when I’m done. My time and energy to make healthy food for my family is minimal but meal planning helps make this more of a success (also, it turns out 2 year olds don’t really like salads).

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If you let your kids pick it or grow it, they are much more likely to eat it!

I’ve reflected a lot these last eight months on what health means to me now. Some days, health means doing whatever I need to do to be happy so I can take care of all the other responsibilities I have in my life. Other days, health means starting my day with a green smoothie and being more conscious about what I am putting in my body so that I feel good during the day. Other days, health means setting my alarm for 5:00am and having coffee in the dark silence before heading out for a run.

If nothing more, this year I have learned that health doesn’t just happen. We have to be conscious and make time for it. “The best days of my life” were epic and I felt amazing, but for me that lifestyle wasn’t sustainable in order to have the family and work life that I want so badly. So it’s give and take, it’s messy, and for now it’s getting up some days at 5am.

Let’s peel back the mystery and power that we give to our “healthiest self.” Let’s create a plan, take action, and find balance. When I write things down I often feel more in control of them. Have you experienced this? I invite you to set 2 goals for yourself this week that will make you feel good (make them specific instead of general  i.e. instead of “eat healthier”, name a specific action you will take). I also challenge you to spend at least one day without criticizing yourself and see how much better you feel. Life can be hard enough, bring out your inner cheerleader and leave the mean girl in the back seat. In fact, let that mean girl out of your car and let her chase your high school crush. Because you, me, and our inner cheerleaders are too busy focusing on how to make today awesome.

My health goals:

  1. Eat a real lunch each day instead of snacking and drinking coffee throughout the day.
  2. Attend one yoga class this week (Tuesday at 9:15am).

 

Feel free to share your goals in the comment section below!

We’re in this together!

Sweat and dreams,

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She.is.beautiful Founder and Director and Mother of 2 1/2 year old boy and eight month old baby girl.

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